Recovery after divorce
What are the reasons for divorce? Should I divorce or save family? How to overcome divorce?Should I divorce or save family? How to overcome divorce?
Marriage separation and divorce are even a more difficult experience than breaking up of a romantic relationship. Divorce and separation ruin life plans and trust to the person who used to be the closest. In addition, the family separation and related processes just do their part with the stress. Because of the effects of divorce, it is one of the most severe tests for your self-assertion and moral strength. Also, you might have to assess pros and cons about children and divorce, thinking how to make the least damage and bring them up as well-balanced people. Lots of difficult questions arise in a family break-up situation. Should I divorce or go for divorce busting to save my family? And how would I settle down in new conditions of single life? How to get the divorce recovery and how to mature to new exciting relationships? If you are seeking divorce advice, then you’re in the right place for reconsidering your options.
Surviving Divorce: It's hard to be civilized but possible
Divorce is a terrible blow to the very foundation of the human existence, which one might not recover. The consequences will be, in any case, whether these effects are tragic for our future fate or will come to something new and good.. That depends on our actions in the process of experiencing and overcoming divorce.
Unfaithfulness. Divorce or not to?
Igor Gagarin, Archpriest
God let to divorce in the case of unfaithfulness. It’s the first reason for divorce. In Old Testament approach to unfaithfulness is more tough: from moment of a spouse unfaithfulness marriage was automatically cancelled. Moreover, if I am not mistaken under Old Testament Law marriage was divorced and desire of spouse to excuse (forgive) unfaithfulness could not change it.
Try your best to avoid a divorce
Sergey Nikolayev, Archpriest
When a divorce is about to happen you should talk it over. I’m not going to examine all the situations but if, say, a man leaves his wife for another woman, a wife should ask him some questions like "What is next? Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with that woman? Are you positive you won’t leave her in some time?"