Getting over a break up
To get over a break up, you need to get rid of illusions
When surviving a break-up, at first, you must get rid of your illusions.
You might be in a situation of a potential break-up now or maybe the breaking up has already happened. Many of us, after having to face a relationship break-up, often feel the loss of meaning of life. So these are the primary goals which we should set for the nearest future: cope with fact that there are cases which we can’t now change (e.g. divorce or separation), and learn how to move on. Take a sober look at the situation. The idea "I can't live without this person" is false. There are no such trials given to us that we cannot overcome with our inner strength, definitely including break-ups. Probably, it is the time for you to stop questioning how to get your ex back and reverse break-up. Try asking questions more like "how to deal with a break-up?" and "how to get over a break-up?”. It is tough, but you need to move on and possibly become even more capable to love.
How to go through a break up from a loved one
Almost all of us sooner or later face running into a break up in life. And some people will experience this more than once. This is a very important event, because it signifies the end. The most important thing is that this parting is a moment of choice and the beginning of a new start in life. If the choice was correct, it can be the start of new and better life, with a more true understanding of love. Just parting helps a huge amount of people to become mature, loving and happy people.
The myth that real love can happen only once in a lifetime was invented by romantics
Ðriest Andrew Lorgus
I believe that in no way you should keep silent about this pain. You shouldn’t hide it from your beloved that has left
you. Express it somehow. Cry, grieve, shout, write poetry, dive into creative work. The only thing you mustn’t do is to
curse him. Don’t bear malice and don’t humiliate him.
Like Lot leaving the burning city, don’t look back
Psychologist Irina Rakhimova
In order to get out of this condition, make the first step - say farewell to the city. There are many interesting events
in the future, many other cities. Among them there is that very place that you’ll like most of all. It’s your native town
where you can find your refuge.
Wait and your boat will come
Eumeny (Peristy), Abbot
True love can be distinguished by the ability to let a person go. Sometimes girls say, ‘Look, I’m sick and tired of your
love. Let me go, please.’ So your love also may be shown in your ability to leave the person alone.
God’s love can compensate for the lack of any other love
Archpriest Igor Gagarin
To go through a break-up is so hard it seems unbearable sometimes. It turns out to be really impossible for some poor
souls because many suicides are committed on account of unhappy love. ‘For love is strong as death’, Scripture says. (Song
of Solomon 8.6)
Understand and accept yourself
Psychologist Irene Karpenko
At this moment one should accept adult ways of living. One of them is learning to support others. Doing something good and
useful for someone else is the most blissful and joyful thing in the world.