Getting over a break up

To get over a break up, you need to get rid of illusions

breaking up When surviving a break-up, at first, you must get rid of your illusions.
You might be in a situation of a potential break-up now or maybe the breaking up has already happened. Many of us, after having to face a relationship break-up, often feel the loss of meaning of life. So these are the primary goals which we should set for the nearest future: cope with fact that there are cases which we can’t now change (e.g. divorce or separation), and learn how to move on. Take a sober look at the situation. The idea "I can't live without this person" is false. There are no such trials given to us that we cannot overcome with our inner strength, definitely including break-ups. Probably, it is the time for you to stop questioning how to get your ex back and reverse break-up. Try asking questions more like "how to deal with a break-up?" and "how to get over a break-up?”.  It is tough, but you need to move on and possibly become even more capable to love. 
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How to go through a break up from a loved one (Dmitry Semenik)
The myth that real love can happen only once in a lifetime was invented by romantics (Рriest Andrew Lorgus)
Like Lot leaving the burning city, don’t look back (Psychologist Irina Rakhimova)
Wait and your boat will come (Eumeny (Peristy), Abbot)
God’s love can compensate for the lack of any other love (Archpriest Igor Gagarin)
Understand and accept yourself (Psychologist Irene Karpenko)

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