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I've been married for 16 years now. My biggest problem in life is the communcation skills that i do not have nor i learnt from my past. At multiple time we got up to a point to leave each other. I've got some help in previous years and it did help for a short period of time because of my hanger and communcations whitch was off track. Well now this is really razor sharp edge time. I understand her that she can't change for who i am and realize that nothing will change this. She tells me that she loves me but does not feel the love for me, in either words she is not in love with me.(i have a hard time to understand this). She is giving me this last chance to make it or break it. We are still in the same bed but touching very little. I know this is all anger and i respect this. I've explained to her that my communication skills are not sharp. I have a one way communication. it's i listen but i do not know how to reply correctly for not to hurt feelings. We are still married and not separated but sometimes she said that i would need to sleep on the sofa for giving her some space. I want to restore this connection and i am seeing a psychologist to remedy this problem. Can love regenerate after all these years to be together and how long will this take to recover my wife back in my arms? 

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Gilles , age: 43 / 09.07.2012

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