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I have been unhappy in my marriage and decided long ago I would leave her once my boys are out of high school. 5 years ago I met a woman
and had an affair. We had a very deep and passionate relationship. She left her husband with her young child but my boys were very angry
and I stayed for them. Over time she became more frustrated with me, but still loved me. Finally this year I have left my wife. I wrote a
letter to my old girlfriend and a couple facebook messages. As expected she was very angry with me. Said she would have loved me forever,
but I chose my family. She is currently seeing someone. She said she hates me and to leave her alone. Curiously, she said I have
distracted her over the last month. Is she conflicted? Confused? My counselor and a couple friends said I should pursue her, that she
must still have feelings. Am I on a fool's errand?
MN , age: 56 / 07.10.2012
In Russia we say "there's no way to build your happiness at the ruins of someone's happiness". There are too many people being unhappy because of
your choices and there will be more if you don't just stop hesitating and make your last and final choice.
Natalia , age: 28 / 22.10.2012
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