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My wife and I just got legally separated after 2 years of marriage, and over 11 years together. Her main issue with me was
that I never trusted her and accused her of cheating many times. We have two daughters, 11 and 2. She first talked about
divorce, but decided on legal separation, saying it was her "gut feeling". She decided we would get the separation, and in
the future, start over as friends, because she says I don't know her. Then if we can be friends, we might be able to
reconcile and remain married. At first she was very consoling to me. I cried to her, and she said everything was going to
be alright. We still communicated and had sporatic sex for about two months after she first said she wanted the
separation. Over the next six months, things slowly got worse. The sex stopped and she limited our communication to only
matters that had to do with the separation and the children. For a while, she would still let me hug her when I dropped
the girls off, but eventually that stopped too. For the last couple months she has become less and less nice to me. Now
she is downright nasty, and does things to try to hurt me. She suspects I've been looking at her and her friend's Facebook
pages to try to find out if she's seeing someone, and has said she posts things to make me think she is, and even gets her
friends to "play along". She also said she was thinking about posting she was in a relaionship with someone and taking
pics when she's out with every guy in the bar, and posting them, just to "entertain" me. She says her plan is still to
start over as friends after a year and possibly reconcile. I don't believe this is still her plan, in light of the way
she's been treating me. I believe she does want the divorce but is not going to tell me until the agreement is signed (we
signed yesterday) and she has all of her belongings out of my house. I am lost and don't know what to think or do.

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Bret , age: 41 / 11.03.2013

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