Is it possible to get back the lost love?
How to bring love back? What is the way back to love?How to bring love back? What's the way back to love?
It is always hard to believe that the break-up is final and that happiness is impossible to return. We want to return love, and it seems that to get back together with the one we love is the only cure for the pain we feel now. Often we are just left to cope, learning how to move on. But actually, not every break-up is irreversible: sometimes love returns together with a deeper understanding of each other. In many cases, there is a possibility of getting love back; however, it takes a lot of effort. So what exactly can we do to get love back?
Let’s defeat hostility with love
Archpriest Igor Gagarin
What does a girl do if she wants to get attention? She beautifies herself! So, let your soul do the same. The more beautiful and pure your soul is the more chances there are to get back your love.
The one you love may not yet be ready for love
Priest Andrew Lorgus
At times a person needs some time to grow mature enough to love. Eventually love can awake and begin to live a full life. Then a person returns to the object of his or her love as a more mature individual and worthy of this love.
In order to get back the lost love one should overcome his selfishness
Psychologist Irene Moshkova
It’s possible to get back the lost love if you manage to overcome your own selfishness, natural indignation and personal ambition. It is quite possible but only if you turn to God and pray to Him just as Jesus prayed for His offenders, ‘Forgive them, Father for they know not what they do!’
Remain close to each other at all levels
Psychologist Irene Rakhimova
True love does not die once and for all. It is like the sun, it can go away and then come back. You’d better help your love to get back supplying the fire of love with forgiveness and meeting each other’s wishes no matter what.
It takes maturity to love
Psychologist Irene Karpenko
One must learn to build up and defend his identity in communication with other people. This is a laborious task both within yourself and upon others. Gaining a strong sense of self-consciousness and learning to restrain ourselves and others including those closest to us is of much importance.
If you wait, your former partner definitely won’t come back
Evmeniy (Peristyi), Abbot
Even if he misses you, deep down he knows he should not come back. You’d better let him go wishing a good luck and thanking him for all the good that happened between you.